"Most human diseases, behaviors and traits involve a combination of the
genes we got from our parents as well as events we experience in our everyday
lives, especially in utero and as children. You might even throw some microbes,
or the lack thereof, into the predictive equations. Many of the conditions that
seem to run in families, such as cancer, depression, intelligence, asthma,
athletic prowess, height, addiction, happiness, autism, hypertension, musical
talent, body weight, childhood aggression, longevity, altruism, heart disease,
and schizophrenia, are part heredity and part environment. [Those families
drink the same water, eat a similar diet, have music in their culture – or not,
share various stresses, adopt similar habits, etc.]” Evolving
Ourselves: How Unnatural Selection and Nonrandom Mutation are Changing Life on
Earth Juan Enriquez and Steve Gullans, Penguin Group 2015 p. 63
The long and the short of it all is that we can – and DO –
substantially influence our own welfare and wellbeing by real-life exposures
and experiences … whatever our genetic
blueprint.
One can’t help marvel at Jimmy Carter
living a zest-filled life to the age of 90+ despite a family history riddled
with early-age deaths from pancreatic and other cancers.
Aberrations occur. One can’t help being stumped by George Burns
living to be 100+ despite smoking cigars all his life!
Burns notwithstanding, what we smoke, what we eat, what we
drink, the time we spend in the sun, the time we spend with friends/on the
job/in front of the TV/on the Smart Phone, how much we worry, how much exercise
we get, and the drugs we take can dramatically affect our performance and
possibilities. Elite athletes don’t
“tune” their bodies with Ding Dongs and pork rinds (although their metabolism would
probably handle the empty calories and chemical additives a lot better than
that of a couch potato!) And one certainly
doesn’t put diesel fuel or sugar water into a race car or feed cheese cake to a
race horse.
With all the things we can do – good OR bad – to impact our
welfare and well being, the combined impact of the unperturbed moment, the
compulsion for Immediate Gratification, the street-wise bravado of defying
constraint and common sense, and an indigenous reliance on Delayed Ramification
can foil even the highest order genetic blueprint or best of intentions.
So how do we manage? It
turns out that the PSYCHOME is the most powerful component of the BIOME in our
armamentarium for successful passage. As
the brain is equipped, so goes life. While
IQ is more or less “fixed”, content and contextualization are not. We can fill the tabula rasa with fantasies, fluff, fixations, and fabrications, or
with facts, fundamentals, fortifications and fulfillable Dreams. Content matters! Contextualization matters! Inclination matters! A true-reckoning map of the world and how it
works matters! And who’s driving
matters!
Executive
Function should be our "Designated Driver". Executive Function governs what goes in and goes on in the workings, and is one of
TWO defining attributes of the Psychome that will make or break us – including
our genome. Executive Function employs
the following tools: Discipline, Structure,
Judgment/Rationality, Certifiable Principles and Practices, Editing (sifting,
sorting, sanctioning, carding, discarding … ), Delayed Gratification, Visioning,
Vectoring, Goal Setting and Goal Tending, Planning, Prioritization, Analysis/Assessment/Evaluation/Accountability
Monitoring, Engagement of Virtues over Vices.
Emotional
Intelligence is the second defining attribute of the human Psychome required for
success. Daniel Goleman (Emotional Intelligence, Bantam Books,
New York, 1995, p. 8) points out that we have two minds: one that thinks
(Executive Function) and one that feels (Emotional Intelligence). Key elements of Emotional Intelligence
include: Self-Awareness, Self-Direction, Self-Efficacy,
Motivation/”Zeal”, Attitude, Passion Policing, Endurance/Persistence,
Sociability, Impulse Control, Managing Disappointment and Loss.
So what can one do to enhance Executive Function and Emotional
Intelligence?
Some of us have to work harder than others, but enhancement IS
possible!
First, we need to do away with a lot of preconceived notions and
small pond thinking and look toward higher and more distant horizons. Then we need to start “mining” the universe
for all of the raw material we can acquire to build our “something like a star”
LIFEOME (LIFE-O-ME). [NOTE: Executive
Function needs significant materiality to manage or it will atrophy!]
Next we need a lot of real-world experience, mentoring,
socialization, research and experimentation while “sharpening the saw”
(enhancing our understanding, refining our skills, and revisioning our
possibilities, Stephen Covey).
Finally, and fundamentally,
we need to understand that, while the possibilities in life are
ultimately and inextricably bounded by the genome, the most positive outcomes are
absolutely not going to happen
without getting the higher-order “omics” properly engaged. And we need to force the issue: Give the Psychome and Lifeome proper nurturing! DON'T
POISON them or fill them with trash and trivialities! Feed them some real capacitizing and coping capital. Aerate them – get them moving – give them
exercise. Stretch them to full capacity
– take on big Dreams … big challenges and see what they can do. A properly tuned and turned Psychome and
Lifeome can make the Biome shine like the diamond it really can be, even with
all its imperfections. I can’t wait to
see yours sparkle!
Quartermaster
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