Why do we have persisting “Achievement Gaps” both in public schools
and on the job … why do so many business owners complain that they can’t get
“decent help” … and why do so many fail, personally, to achieve what they “reasonably”
ought to achieve – never mind reaching their full “potential”?
I submit that a lot of the answer has to do with
inadequate application of – or sensitivity to – consequences of behavior.
It’s particularly difficult to
understand or appreciate the potential impact of long-term consequences. Counting on delayed ramification is like counting
on virtual fungible currency borrowed from the future; with any luck at all,
there won’t be any consequences … at least of any consequence … even as the
statute of limitations on “delays” progressively runs out and “ramifications”
progressively pile up.
We have heard much in the news recently about the “Rule of
Law”. But I think we have a much larger
and more pernicious problem in the lack of a “Rule of Consequences”. One shouldn’t have to wait until only the
most offensive breach of accountability occurs (as when the “Rule of Law” has
to be invoked) to hold a person accountable for less than “accountable”
behavior. Accountability (both to
oneself and to civilization at large) is a citizen’s responsibility across the
board – else one risks a loss of “enfranchisement”.
While a loss of “enfranchisement”
may be “no big deal” in the moment – and may even be perceived as a “badge of
honor” to the more defiantly disposed – the collateral damage from losses of
association, affiliation and indemnification (which translate to deficiencies
in respect, legitimacy and trustworthiness) required to significantly advance
in the universe represents a much larger and longer range liability.
Conservative psychologists and educators have long decried
the emergence of permissiveness in parenting, combined with educationist
innovations of the mid-20th century, which shifted the focus of
nurturing future generations from disciplined and “consequential” guidance of
youth to the minimization of consequences, elimination of competition,
inflation of grades and enhancement of self-esteem, with “Trophies for
Everyone” ... thus, fairly convincingly foreshadowing the emergence of
“Achievement Gaps” and regression of personal potential. In fact, one might argue that “Achievement
Gaps” only exist because the “overachievers” (both parents and youth who
refused to give in – and who insisted in both getting and being the
best) kept forging ahead, leaving the willful or baneful non-participants
behind.
One might also argue that such a
state of affairs has given a “windfall” advantage to less talented individuals
and “Unlikely Champions” who adamantly maintained an insistence on both getting
and being the best, while the more savvy were seeing how much they could “get
away with”, “beating the system”, outsmarting
the “authorities”, writing their own rules … beating their own drums … etc. – trying
to force the world to meet them on their own terms and to compel the universe
to bend to their personal will!
From this perspective, the more consequences we minimize
and/or eliminate, the more “equal opportunities” become available to those more
goal-oriented and positively driven.
The Urban County Council General Government and Social
Services Committee of the Lexington Fayette UCG recently passed a proposed
change to an ordinance that would expand the current city-wide curfew for youth
18 years of age and under from 11 pm to 1 pm on week nights. http://www.kentucky.com/news/local/counties/fayette-county/article131285794.html
What a great way to “thin the competition”!
[Unfortunately, it’s also a sure-fire way to “thin the herd” http://www.kentucky.com/news/local/crime/article124332179.html ]
For a similar reason, one might be inclined to support
legislation legalizing the recreational use of marijuana; it would bring in
massive amounts of tax revenue and open a lot more opportunities for the more
disciplined and positive consequence-driven to rise uncontested.
The blossoming of craft beer and bourbon enterprises in the
Bluegrass Region, combined with the change in curfew, will be expected to have
similar impact … driving revenue and creating increasing numbers of job
vacancies for the more soberly ambitious to fill.
There are gut-level fundamentals of human psyche and
physiology in play here. Perhaps first and
most of all, we’d simply rather NOT if we don’t HAVE to. Thus, finding ourselves in a civilization
where we’re as free to do ourselves harm as we are to chase our dreams, we have
a sure-fire formula for degenerative regression, not progression. Add to that our innate “Rogue”, defiant,
self-serving nature, and we become extremely creative – even dedicated to a
point of preoccupation – with “Beating the System”.
It takes an extremely diligent application of discipline – and
at least the awareness of potentially harsh consequences – to forge our way
through, above and beyond the latitude we are given to do ourselves in.
My short-lived and exhausting term
of volunteering in the public school system during 2015-2016 left me with the
unalterable conviction that a lack of interventional guidance is THE core
element in the emergence of “Achievement Gaps”. Not only are poverty-riddled parents unable
to spend the time and energy necessary to supervise and mentor children toward
productive citizenship, they are unable to get them engaged in positive
community-supported activities where significant others [the "Village"] can have a positive
impact and where they can gain a much broader and more global view of how the
world works. Personally, I was very
lucky. I was raised in a small community
where noble role models dotted the landscape and strict behavioral expectations
were de rigueur. I was in Cub Scouts, Boy Scouts, church
choir, church youth groups, 4-H, the American Federation of Music Clubs, took
piano lessons, was in band, had excellent coaching in baseball, football and
basketball, and attended a college which had a 10 pm curfew.
This brings us to our final, defining moment
revelation: Positive Consequences make Negative Consequences totally irrelevant
and unnecessary! Give a person a
Vision, a Purpose, a Mission and possibilities large enough to capture their
hunger-to-succeed in that Vision/Purpose/Mission for an entire lifetime, and
all you have to do is stand back and watch miracles happen! Except that you won’t be able to stand back
at all; you’ll be itching to help!! All
we have to do is find the switch that turns it on. How “turned on” are YOU? Quartermaster
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