Sitting at a stop light with my mind wa/ondering on and off about
nothing and everything all at the same time, I became peripherally aware of a
small, gray, animated “presence” moving along the sidewalk. It would alternately roll over, then climb a
small wall, then turn itself inside out, hurry on down the sidewalk, etc., with
highly spirited undulation.
However, on closer inspection, I discovered the animated gray
“presence” was a plastic bag being blown down the street by the wind!
Without warning, my “nothings” and “everythings” took a
decidedly inward turn.
Motivational gurus talk about “driving forces” that nudge us
to do whatever we do – or don’t.
However, sometimes we do stuff without any discernible “driving forces”
… just “being us”.
So it occurred to me that each of us has some kind of “WIND”
blowing over, around and through our lives that carries us along the sidewalks,
highways and byways of the universe, and – particularly when other “driving
forces” are not engaged – we simply move in the direction the wind inside us blows. The constant “blowing” of this wind gives us the
impression that we’re going somewhere, even when we’re not … and even when
we’re going in an unproductive direction.
This “wind” is the prime source of our sense of “busyness” … like when
someone asks us to take out the trash, walk the dog, clean up our room, unload
the dishwasher, etc. … we’re “busy”.
To an observer, the prevailing wind may be mistaken for
attitude, and it probably is a significant contributor to attitude.
A major contributing element to the prevailing wind,
including its force and direction, is “natural inclinations”, supplemented by
adopted habits.
Some are resigned to let the prevailing winds dictate their
destiny, with outcomes only fortuitous by accident, and generally not. The
inevitably disappointing results are usually credited to “Fate”.
So the operational question here is: How do we direct the
“wind” inside and around us to take us where we really want or need to be
going? And how do we create/capture more
of the “Good Wind”? If we could but capture,
tame/harness and direct that wind, what wonders we could achieve!
Here we run into the ever-lurking question of GOALS. What do we WANT? What do we NEED? And what engagement is most worthy to capture
our best effort for the entire duration?
Passion, Mission and Purpose help define wind direction and
intensity and come packaged with self-directed wind generators. Unfortunately, these are rare commodities in
the underbelly of mere existence. So
we’ve got to do most of the “wind mining” from scratch. But “wind mining” is the business we’re in
for the entire duration – should we accept the challenge of matriculating
toward our full potential.
Negative driving forces – like hunger, discomfort and fear
of alienation of supporting actors – can
be a potent part of the mix:
“Motivation is a pretty fancy name for a necessity of life. It was motivation that put food on our
plates, thoughts in our heads, and blankets on our bodies when it was pretty
damn cold at night. Motivation taught us
all about life, sometimes good, sometimes not so good. As my Pa used to say, ‘If you can’t go over
an obstacle, go around it. If that don’t
work, go through it ... and make damn sure you don’t trip, boy.’ I guess that’s motivation for you. Sometimes my motivation didn’t feel so good,
so I just fed it some courage and hope.
It worked as long as I supported it.” Jack Dempsey (Speaker’s Idea File, June 1994, p. 5, Ragan
Communications, Inc., Chicago, IL)
“Tail winds” help
immensely, if we can catch them, although we’re more likely to encounter “headwinds”
and “crosswinds” in the usual course of events.
Tail winds can be found in the synchronistic wake of similarly engaged
others or provided by a supporting cast of collegial first advocates and
cooperating collaborators, coaches or mentors.
(NOTE: It pays huge dividends to make oneself “helpable”!)
Capturing the wind of a Dream or a Passion provides the most
momentum in the most favorable direction.
When the wind seems to flow at cross purposes or is stilled
to a whisper, it’s time to “Center Down” and construct a reorienting “wind
tunnel” to get it going again. Yoga,
meditation and exercise are excellent means of “wind tunneling” to regenerate/recapture
favorable wind energy and direction.
“How many roads must a man walk down,
Before they call him a man?
“The answer, my friend, is blowin’ in the wind.
The answer is blowin’ in the wind.”
Bob Dylan
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